:(Boyfriend problems, i need relationship advice. should i call it done?
if he broke up with you then it's pretty much done. i know its hard and i've been through it too, but the best thing to do is move on. he wasnt treating you right (after 6 months) and you deserve better than that. don't wait for him...dont put your life on hold for him when he's probaby moving on with his life. if he doesnt want you then its his lost and you're better off with out him. its just gonna take some time and i know its gonna be really hard, but its the truth.Boyfriend problems, i need relationship advice. should i call it done?
The best thing for you to do in this case is back off a little bit. Give him some space and give him some time to actually MISS you.
That will give you some time to really think about if you want him back. If you decide you want him back, try this:
Write him a hand written letter (not a text or email, this is VERY important) and tell him that you agree with the breakup. Tell him that the breakup is the best thing for you both, (you might even say that you've been thinking about breaking up for a while.)
This technique will work even if you have already called and texted him a million times. Just tell him sorry that you've acted a little crazy, (for texting, calling, etc) and that you agree with the breakup.
This may seem counterintuitive but according to relationship experts (and personal experience) it is extremely powerful - and works.
You can see why this works on this website here: http://alturl.com/fwbe
The free video will walk you through the technique and explain why it works.
Good Luck!
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