Just asking for a little advice ;] At the beginning of the summer I met this what I thought was perfect guy...You know the pamper you kinda type. I fell absolutely in love with him. He had a felony, but I looked pasted that. He went to this thing called drug court/probation. He was doing good until he decided to help break into a pharmacy. Him and his friend got caught now hes looking at prison time. I really don't want to be with someone that is going to be a jailbird, and the fact that he might just keep getting in trouble..even though he says hes not. Should I stay with him or let him go? Don't get me wrong I love him to pieces...Hes even talking about getting married, and spending forever with me. I don't want to give up on him, but I can't deal with this again.Boyfriend Problems Need Advice.?
Look at your own facts:
He was on probation - for what?
He decided to break into a pharmacy - for what?
He might just keep getting in trouble - for what?
Look, he's NOT a very ';perfect guy'; and you didn't bother to explain other than he steals and gives you some of the spoils.
He is a known troublemaker before you, more of a troublemaker with you, and ';just might'; continue getting into trouble....
Let him do all that without you.
You didn't give him any penalties, any warnings, any reason to stop DOING SOMETHING REALLY STUPID. Do you realize you may be sharing blood money?
He didn't care about your relationship when he broke parole! Why should you?Boyfriend Problems Need Advice.?
get out and get out now. your a good looking girl who can get whatever she wants.
this guy has no regard for your feelings or he would not have gone and broken the law again. if you stay and get married, be prepared for a father thats not around, a man who cant support you, and being stressed and depressed and alone. if he really cared, he would be looking at getting a real job and not stuffing around.
I'd move on. Write to him if you want, but tell him that he is going to have to prove himself big time. you dont want to start a life with someone who is going to be in and out of jail.
so keep your options open, start dating, but dont totally rule this guy out.
if he cared so much about you and your relationship he wouldnt of been so careless, it seems like his addiction is ruling his life, and until thats a none issue, he shouldn't be a life option for you.
if he is going to jail this wouldn't be a good relationship. but if you are in love with him you should tell him how you feel and that you don't want him to do it again or its over. just make sure he doesn't get you caught up in any of this Business. my personal opinion is you deserve someone better so i would tel him its over and you can go and look for someone who is more like you.
i cant stress enough the importance of believing in yourself at moments like this. ask yourself what your life means to you, how you want to spend it and what kind of person you want to be in the years to come. if he doesnt fit into your ideas for your life, then move on or forever regret it.
I bet if a good guy (not nice guy) tried to get at you, you would think he is a f@g or something but then ooohhhhhh the bad boy. I am so sick of women like you, you created your own problem here. If you have any brains at all you will dump him and get over it.
get out before you catch a case im going threw the same thing. but before i could get out i got a citation that could possible be on my record for life and be without my state job. so run baby girl run while you are ahead
now i am not saying to break up with him but you need to think really hard of what you are doing, i do not think and one would like to be in any risks and things like these are putting yourself in harms way and also a huge big trouble cause if he is that type of person then make the decision cause i would not certainy be with someone like that and plus i rather have a comfortable life than a life with hurt and trouble then therefore it does make sense that this life is not worth living for. this is much more complicated, crying and hurting is in nobody^s wishes as how they would want to live life. you can not always study love you need to study the way your life is going to be.
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