Sunday, August 22, 2010

Are there any lawyers willing to help with some advice on child custody problems?

my bf ex is playing games. she tells my bf that he can pick up his kids but when he goes she tells him that they dont want to go . he then asks his kids and they of course say no they dont want to go. she gives him a hard time about getting the kids. she tells him that he doesnt help her out he never has money for his kids, etc. he would give her money on the side but what for she doesnt let him get his kids. he does pay child support. i decided to make a family with my bf, but his ex seems not to want me in ';their'; business- meaning her %26amp; kids. we live together! if she ever lets them come over im going to be here in my house, does she expect me to leave my on home? i cant ask her because she will go bizerk, i already tried talking to her nicely. where do i fit in with this situation? i think its my business as well as theirs because i have a baby with and live with the dad. what am i suppose to do. but out or what????Are there any lawyers willing to help with some advice on child custody problems?
PAS---sometimes called Parental Alienation (PA)--- is a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child-custody disputes.





Its primary manifestation is the child's campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification.





It results primarily from the programming (brainwashing) of a child by one of the parents, whose goal is the complete vilification of the other parent.





WHAT DOES PAS LOOK LIKE?





~ The child denigrates the alienated parent with foul language and severe oppositional behavior.





~ The child offers weak, absurd, or frivolous reasons for his or her anger.





~ The child is sure of him or herself and doesn't demonstrate ambivalence, i.e. love and hate for the alienated parent, only hate.





~ The child exhorts that he or she alone came up with ideas of denigration. The ';independent- thinker'; phenomenon is where the child asserts that no one told him to do this.





~ The child supports and feels a need to protect the alienating parent.





~ The child does not demonstrate guilt over cruelty towards the alienated parent.





~ The child uses borrowed scenarios, or vividly describes situations that he or she could not have experienced.





~ Animosity is spread to the friends and/or extended family of the alienated parent.





~ In severe cases of parent alienation, the child is utterly brain- washed against the alienated parent. The alienating parent can truthfully say that the child doesn't want to spend any time with the other parent.





~ When told that the child MUST spend time with the other parent, the alienator typically responds, ';There isn't anything I can do about it. She/he just doesn't want to be with you.';





PEOPLE HAVE LOST CUSTODY OF THEIR CHILDREN, FOR THIS DYSFUNCTIONAL BEHAVIOR.Are there any lawyers willing to help with some advice on child custody problems?
go to family court file a petition then get a lawyer
Avoid that woman, it never ends well trying to talk to the ex. If your boyfriend is giving money on the side besides the child support then he is a fool, that only encourage her to keep asking for more. Take her to court for violating the visitation agreement.
Don't feel bad my husband and I have been going threw the same thing for over three years now and all you can do is support him. With his babby mama.Go to court get a visitation order and go from their don't give her any extra money and don't say anything to her that is what she wants see people like that are sad and thinks that she is hurting the other parent but in the long run its the child that get hurt so love your bf and its up to him to take care of this he to file the paper work.
He needs to petition the court for visitation. And sorry, but as far as her and their children together. It isn't any of your business. I understand where you are coming from. I am a step mom, and sometimes holding my tongue is the hardest thing in the world to do, but this has nothing to do with you and as much as you want your two cents heard, it shouldn't be heard. That only adds fuel to the fire between the two of them when you try to get involved.


Of course you don't have to leave your home, but at the same time, you have no say as to what goes on between him, her, and their kids.
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