He's going to ask me out sometime this week but I don't know if it's a good idea because it's so weird. He came over last Friday and it was fun but we were listening to music the whole time.
What do you think I should do? Is it just the way he is or does he not like me?Guy problems? Need advice!?
Sometimes guys react really weird towards a girl they got a crush on... As you guys build a relationship you will learn that all those awkward times pay off honestly... Im pretty sure he likes you... there will always be an awkward silence... But the more you hang out and talk the better everything will beGuy problems? Need advice!?
That is a completly normal way for a guy and yourself to act seriously. It's always to communicate with someone over text or the phone rather than in person, especially if you have friends sitting around. I would not worry about it, go ahead and enjoy your time with him. The more you are going to spend time with him the less it is going to be awkward. Your feelings are very normal for the beggining of a relationship like that, don't worry too much, take it one step at a time and enjoy!
don't worry about it at all!
i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now, %26amp; at the start before we got together it was really difficult %26amp; weird trying to talk to him, it nearly didn't happen because we were both so nervy (although he would like to blame it on me i'm sure lol)
if you like him, i can promise you it's well worth getting past the awkward stage. %26amp; if you're asking this question because you're not sure if you like him, then maybe it's not worth it or really what you want.
awkwardness goes away though :) %26amp; then you have someone you can be completely yourself with all of the time.
:)
He probably does like you, but he just needs to be a little more confident. Anybody can hide behind technology and be so funny and smart, He just doesnt know what to say in person without him feeling exposed. To make it easier on him, ask him simple questions, and ask his advice, when he gives an answer then ask him a ';why'; question so he can verbalize his opinion. So stop texting and have a real phone conversation, and hang out more. He is just nervous
It may just be the way he is. I'm shy too, but if you can start up a conversation and make me feel like you want to talk to me, then I open up. It's WAY easier to talk to someone, especially someone you like, in a text, IM or email. So he's probably just really shy so if you don't mind starting the conversations until he feels comfortable it will be fine.
Well you are pretty young because you refer to him as kid, so don't worry about it because you will prolly be together only 2 weeks and then the new will wear off and you will move on. I know that seems like a lifetime for you young ones. You have the power. Remember only you can prevent forest fires.
my advice, ive noticed this-NEVER EVER TALK TO A GUY NOT FACE TO FACE (before you get to know him) then things in person is weird. because he is used to being behind a computer screen or cell phone. that has happened with me with 2 guys, and unless they are really confident they dont vibe with you in real life like they would behind their cell fone screen. its a common happening...answer mine please? and good luck...just tell him no and that you want to be friends, get to know him on a friend base-and see how far it goes
It isn't him, it is you who are the problem.
He has joined you and YOUR friends. You felt awkward. Because you couldn't be kind and find out about him.
He came over and you wanted to listen to music.
He should pass you by. It is all about you. You haven't bothered to find out about him.
Relationships 101 - when will you graduate?
i think if you really like himlike he likes you then you should go for it but first tell him that you dont want it to be awkward between you 2 when ur together in person. but if you feel you dont like him like he likes you them you should tell him that you dont feel the same way he feels about u and you just want to be friends for now
Go out with him so you can get to know him better.
It's always awkward in the beginning :]
For instance, the first time my last boyfriend came to sit with me and all my friends at lunch, no one said a word the entire time. It was horrible. Don't worry, it gets way better as time goes on.
This kid seems shy around other people. I say that you should give him a chance. Once you two are together, you probably would make him more confident and be able to branch out. I have the same problem. I have such awsome conversations with this guy in text but it's kind of akward during school seeing him, if I do see him. I think people seem cooler through texts and online. Soo.. if he asks you out, I suggest that you say yes, just to give it a try!
honestly;
if you really like him... you should try to talk to him more
think of things he likes and talk about it with him
if your not all that into him anymore
you need to tell him
and drop his *** quick.
better now then later and you hurt him or yourself even more
theres no point in getting involved with him if he doesnt make you happy.
Sounds like a very shy guy, how sweet.
However, relationships with no communication are dull and boring. Neither of you will have a good time together. Who knows, maybe when he asks you out he'll feel a little more comfortable.
Give him a chance, maybe it'll turn out well.
You should definitely give him a shot. He liked you, he's just shy. Break the ice by starting a conversation. When he sees your confidence, his will come out too. You guys just have to get used to being yourselves around each other in person.
good luck!
You need to ask yourself if you really like this guy and if you would enjoy a no talking relationship. If the answer is no you need to do what is best for you and him.
obvisouly u like him and he like you
and it just probaly arquard because yall never probaly been outside texting and beeing alone
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What kind of question is that? Of course he likes you. Try going out with him for a week, then you make the decision of whether you like him or not.
well if he's gonna ask u out this week AND he said he likes u then, then im sure he likes u. but um i think u should tlk to him more over txt bout wat ur askin us. ask y he doesn talk as much when yall are together.
hope i could help
I think he's having a hard time talking to you because he's a little shy. you both need to get more comfortable around each other, which can be achieved through spending more time together and dating.
well i think i u shuld holla at me ill be yo baby daady we culd *** all nite long idk but i tink te guy shuld join us illl be ****** u so hard that the bed will fall off the the house ya hoolla at me sexy as cracer or oreo or burrito or piece of rice
he lieks you for sure, it might just be weird for awhile.
give it a shot and see where it goes, it might just only get better.
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Don't worry, he's just nervous. Once you get to know him a little more, he will come out of his shell =] Find out somethings you have in common and stuff. Trust me on this one. Good luck with him!
it's just nerves, i would keep hanging out till it is a little less awkward before i started dating if i was you
WELL WHEN THAT HAPPENED WITH MY FAVORITE BOYFRIEND WE ENDED UP BECOMING REALLY GOOD FRIENDS EVEN THOUGH WE BROKE UP WE ARE STILL VARY CLOSE I MEAN HE COMES OVR EVERY DAY! I THINK YOU SHOULD BUT ITS YOUR DESISION
yeah he is nervous, probably even worse with your friends around you, try again to have time to yourself but talk not listen to music.
It sounds like you boyh really like each-other.. but it's probably more akward cause you're both nerveous.
Go out with him and see how it goes. =)
its different when a girl has a friend around
but if he says he likes you he does ... show it hes nervous
oops i meant he cant show it
i know what you feel like!! ive had the same problem i didnt date him if you dnt feel conftorable with the dude then dont date him ;)
your answer is your decision but most people have a better time communicating when the are alone
ok well it sounds like he likes u and all but how do u know hes going to ask u out? and i think it will be better if ur friends arent around
Either way, ask him out!
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