Problems with 2 friends....advice please.?

Ok so my x-friend is being so mean to me and my best friend Morgan. I told Morgan that she should probably end things with her and Morgan said ok. So she sent Aliya (that's my x-friend) a very nasty text message and Aliya told her mom. And i think i should tell u that Aliya sent pretty much the same text message to me a couple days before that. So Aliya's mom went to Morgan's house a couple days later and told Morgan's mom. Well me and Morgan were planning a big trip to Idaho and Morgan's mom told her she couldn't go after what Aliya's mom told her. Well Morgan talked her mom into letting her go after like 2 days. haha. Well anyway after all that happened she forgave Aliya and she still wants to be friends with Aliya and me at the same time and i told her that probably won't work out cuz me and Aliya are like arch enemies now and don't want to see or talk to each other ever again. So what should i do? Should i forget about both of them? Oh and by the way me and Aliya have tryed to be friends before and it never worked out so think about that before u give me and answer. Thank you!Problems with 2 friends....advice please.?
Well you can't make someone chose between two friends. You could try telling Morgan that if you two are going to hang out or do things, she cannot include Aliya in these activities and that you do not want to be around Aliya at all. If you don't feel you can make a compromise then it is probably best to not be friends with Morgan. Life is so much happier without DRAMA and this seems like total drama. You have to do with you think would make you the happiest, even if its not being friends with Morgan anymore.Problems with 2 friends....advice please.?
i've had the same problem before, except i was the one being torn in the middle


for morgans sake, u just have to put up with it


just because you're morgans friend doesn't mean you have to associate with aliya


just make sure morgan is being fair, spending the sam amounts of time with you as she does with aliya, so no one gets jealous


believe me, this is gonna be harder on morgan than on you, so give it a chance
well,tell your mom that aliya gave you that text.but,if you guys aren't comfortable being against each other and all then just not be friends but give up on the war charades thing.and just act like 3 people who haven't really met.but just say a casual hello now and then.you know?cover up the x-friends and act like classmates or something that never hung out.
It seems to me that if you value your friendship with Morgan enough, then you can find a way to still be friends regardless of her choice. If you all aren't that close of friends, then maybe she's not a friend worth having. Follow your heart!
will still be friend with morgan tell her that we hangout just us ok then when the other gril and ur fiend have a fight that will hate each other then try to keep ur friend away from her
i agree with Danasaurus Rex
Ya, well remember this, a friend in need is a friend indeed and since you've tried everything to make it work between Aliya and you, it's sad that nothing worked. Morgan's a free agent. Your fight is with Aliya. Why should Morgan suffer because of that. Aliya has not done anything to hurt Morgan and if Morgan is friends with Aliya that should not hurt you. You ought not to try and control her life too. Given the circumstances, it would seem as though I were telling you to leave them both, but actually what I think you ought to do, is be friends with Morgan and let her be friends with whomsoever she wants.


If you were falling of a cliff and Aliya was the only one close by who could help you, I'm sure she would. Think about that before you finalize your enmity. You ego will bring you a lot of pain in your life if you let it. Sometimes you have to try and be the first to say sorry. |Maybe the fault is not yours at all. I mean, not even an atom size part is your fault. Still if you're willing to let go of your ego, you'll make great friends.


Life is very short and there's is no time for fighting and hating my friend. Try to make friends instead. You'll be a much happier person.
If Aliya is a awful person then your friend will see it... don't worry!!! It can be hard hanging out with people you don't like - trust me I know because I had to do it too! I wouldn't forget about a friend as good as Morgan! The trip to Idaho will bring you two even closer - Aliya won't stand a chance after that bonding between you guys!!! Think about it though - does Aliya have friends? Could she be jealous of how close you two are? Maybe she does want to be your friend but because shes feeling like this she doesn't know how to show it and she gets all defensive around you. If this is the case you would need to be super patient and things will work themselves out - you could end up being good friends (that may be a horrible thought at the moment lol) but it could happen. Think about it... and don't lose a good friend over it.
Girl, you cant make her choose between the both of you. Your friends are allowed to have other friends even if you dont like them. Put yourself in her shoes and think about it a little. I could never choose between any of my friends and sure i have a friend who doesnt like my bestie, but hey thats life and people arent always gonna get along. Just move on if you dont like her, but then again dont be talking about her behind her back to your other friend, because then she will most likely stick up for her and you'll be in a mess. lol Goodluck