and when i say i dont wanna go he calls me a social loser and insults me. I really hate this guy but the rest of my friends seem to like him,. should i just kee ignoring him? Ive tried to get along with him but have realised i just cantFriend problems... Need some short decent advice?
Just hang out with your other friends, and forget the guyFriend problems... Need some short decent advice?
Have you tried organizing events that you and all the others like? Is everyone doing what this one person does? If this one person is the only one who organizes events, then he is clearly dominating all of you and none of you should tolerate it.
The best thing to do is to come up with something you all like. Be sure that is something you all like, excluding the rugby guy. If the guy you don't like disagrees, then you and one of the other try to convince him to do it anyway. If he doesn't, then go along with whatever he wants to do. The reason I'm saying this is your trying to build up a case that he only wants to do what he wants to do. You want one of your other friends to see this as well. Do this two or three more times and then call him out on it. Make sure that one or two of your other friends agree with you. Once you do that, then you will be in a position with your other friends backing you to alienate him.
If you want to gel with these people you should join in with the activities they arrange, even if you don't like it. Don't tell them outright you don't wanna go, it sounds like your not making an effort and a bit like a ';social loser';. If you don't have anything better to do then just go with them, or make up a plausible excuse not to.
Why don't you organize something, something that you really want to do with the group, and see what happens. The reaction of the others (not just the guy who you are having a bit of trouble with, but the rest of the group) will tell you a lot about your standing with them.
Suggest something you would like to do. I wouldn;'t hang out with someone that insults me tho. Go find new friends more your pace.
TRY NOT TO MAKE THIS GUY TO ANGRY because your other friends might not agree with you and then you will be mr no friend. just ignore him and get along with your other friends
when he's not around, say to ur other friends, ';look, guys, i'm sry. it seems like all of U like this guy, but i really really don't.'; and maybe they'll say the same thing!!! u never know until u try!!
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