Thursday, August 19, 2010

Having some friend problems? I really need advice?

Basically,


tonight my friend told me she thought she was pregnant,


and i said, seriously? i will believe you.


and she was going on about how worried she was,


and how she couldnt tell her parents.


then a few hours later,


she told me that she was lying,


and she found it funny.


shes one of my best friends.


and i feel so sad and let down,


cause i was getting really worried for her?





i just need cheering up and advice.


dont say ';its not worth having her as your friend';


cause it is.Having some friend problems? I really need advice?
Ok first of all you need to sit your friend down and talk with her you need to ask her why she felt the need to make up a lie to entertain herself for a while....becasue thats what she was doing...entertaining herself in some fantasy land while you worried. Try and help her work through it...maybe she is having some personal or family problems and is a bit messed up and shes making up a lie to deflect from her real problems but wanted sympathy and attention by making up a fake situation!!! Be careful you need to look after yourself as well as your friend, I hope everything works out for you both and that you can keep your relationship !!going..Please be careful and Protect yourself from any hurt also. Good LuckHaving some friend problems? I really need advice?
I would say she is either testing your friendship to see if ur really her friend or if ur just using her, or she is pulling a harmless prank... some people do it and intend things to be funnier than they are... she obviously thought that the prank she was pulling would be funnier than it ended out to be...





tell her in future please dont joke about that kind of thing, u didnt find it very funny, even though it might have been intended that way... n ask her if it was just harmless or was she testing u somehow... maybe she is a little unsure and wants to know that she has friends around her.
That was a horrible prank to play, your friend is horrible, irresponsible, immature little person and next time she tries something on, call her bluff %26amp; call her parents. I'd drop the 'best' bit as well before friend, even a friend would know better then to do something that nasty.
We'll just know that alot of girls and boys do that to there friends (I've done it) and it takes like 2 days to get over it and then there frineds and everything is back to normal just don't take it to hard.
just tell her how it made you feel. if she is a genuine friend she will listen. i mean ask her to look at it from your point of view. stuff like that is serious and so it doesn't feel right to make a joke about it.
Maybe she was looking for reassurance from you that you are her best friend and that if she came to you with a problem like that you would support her; tell her that it bothered you her doing that.
Maybe she doesn't realise the implications that being pregnant would bring, and doesn't take it as seriousley as you would.


Or maybe she secretly feels like she would like a baby.
lol babe its nothing to get all worked up over! she probably just being a typical teenage friend who doing a prank of her friend lol. so hun dw bwt it... let it fly over your head :P
She's just a bit thoughtless that's all, tell her so and then forgive her or else you won't be much of a friend either.
Tell her it's not funny. And it's not very nice.


And if you want your trust, she better not pull that crap again.

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