I'm just looking for some advice about some guy problems...?

My boyfriend of about 1 year and 10 months and I broke up about a month ago - it was a mutual thing, we're both stressed out from year 12 exams getting closer and we decided it was easier than fighting all the time over nothing, and now we're still good friends. Now that we've broken up I kind of miss him and am regretting the decision to break up. This would all be good and well except he's giving me mixed messages about whether he wants to get back together or not, although he does still tell me that he still loves me. To top things off, I'm kind of 'seeing' this other guy - he's 20 (2 years older than me) but doesn't want a relationship because I should be focusing on school. The thing about this guy is that there's this whole other side to him that I haven't seen until recently. He treats his family like crap - swears at his mum and sisters (the youngest is 9 and she's the frequent target) and he can also get moody and either ignore me or just criticize the way I act. When he's not like this though, he's a really nice guy who treats me right. As well as this, a guy I'm friends with told me last night that he's into me (he's also 20). I used to like this guy ages ago, before I was with my boyfriend, and now I'm just feeling really confused. What I'm really asking, though, is whether I should just give up hope on ever getting back together with my ex and see how things go with one of these other guys? Or should I keep holding out for my ex?


Any advice is welcome!I'm just looking for some advice about some guy problems...?
Your ex is an ex for a reason...if it was worth it you probably never would have split up to begin with...this new guy is garbage see how he treats his mom and sister..its only a matter of time before you become the target....this new guy is probably your best bet....but dont rush into things it sounds like youve got alot going on....





My best advice would be to take a deep breath break it off with the a-hole and tell this other guy to wait a few weeks for you....if hes really worth it and is into you he will wait...if not just chill and consentrate on your school work...hope this helpsI'm just looking for some advice about some guy problems...?
I dont think you should get involved with a guy who insults his mother ,sister,etc.You could be next! Try and restart your relationship with the original guy.Just ask him if he wants to continue your relationship.
One important guideline which we can depend on to some extent with males is the time span of a relationship.dating a woman for 20 months, which your Ex did, i think , is a symbol of true love.


Also considering the way you separated from each other there is nothing to suggest he is a bad guy.


the other two,one is a dangerous type,who will lead to violence in the long run.....the other,well you love him but, does he love you the same way........why not Stick to your true lover.-HR Sri lanka