I need some serious advice for my family problems?

Ok, Im 18 and i have an older sister thats 24. She moved home in may bc she graduated and didnt have any money. She has got to be the laziest person i ever met with no will power or motivation to do anything good for herself. She has a Bachelors in Biology but she is working at a dead end job that i could get tomorrow if i wanted. I know i need to get a job soon but i am just wanting to finish my up first semester of college and then get a job in january part time and go to school. The problem is she doesnt help out with any of the bills, she sleeps till 2 pm and isnt productive at all! We get in arguments all the time because we are 2 totally different people. I have plans on buying a new car for myself and becoming succesfull, while she isnt doing things that a 24 year old should be doing living at home. She could at least help out with the rent/groceries. I cant stand to be around her and i dont want my parents to get stressed with our problems. What do you think i should do? ThanksI need some serious advice for my family problems?
it sounds like your sister is getting away with to much, What are your parents doing about this situation??? Have you discussed with them about her lack of motivation? Perhaps it's a medical depression that she's in. Keep on doing what your doing, sounds like you've got things together. Good for you, you sound like unlike most 18 yr olds, where they are expecting things from thier parents now a days. Keep up the positive attitude, and see about perhaps talking to your parents and your sister about her lack of ambition. Hope this works out for you take care.I need some serious advice for my family problems?
dont worry about ur sister so much and worry about urself if ur parents wanted help with the rent they would ask for it
What you should do is mind your own business.


From what I could tell, you AND your sister are living in YOUR PARENTS HOME. Right?





If it's your parents home then they can have whoever they want living there, and they can ask for rent from whoever they want. FAIR OR NOT!





What goes on between your sister, and her parents, should be strictly between your sister and her parents.


NOT YOU!





It's not your job to motivate your sister, and it's not your job to decide if she's wasting her life or not.





The only person you should be worried about is YOU!


You are working on your own education, and trying to build your own future. Taking on responsibility for anyone else will just be counter productive for you, and can leave you stressed out over something that has nothing to do with you.





If your parents let her stay there and veg out, and allow themselves to be stressed over it, then that's their problem.





I suggest you finish school, get a job, get your car, and leave the worrying about your sister between your parents and your sister.
That she is working while you are not is not in your favor. That you are just starting school and have plans in't either. Thats just plain selfshness. What is in your favor is that you have someone who could help with school issues so start treating her like the older sister she is and perhaps both your plans will improve everyones existence rather than just your own.

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