I am having problems with my dad any advice?

i am a 13 year old girl My mom and dad got divorced but my dad has gotten 2 girlfriends but breaken up with them and now he has another girl friend. i don't know what to do ive talked with him about it and its hard to say goodbye to them but it seems like he dosn't care or isnt listening to what i say. i need help please.I am having problems with my dad any advice?
My dad used to do that too. and I would get really close to his girlfriends and then he would break up with them and it left me really confused. But think about it like in a fe years you will be dating and that is just what he is doing. He isn't trying to hurt you but is probably hurting himself right by because of the divorce from your mom. It's hard for someone to go through that with a person especially when they have you. Just be friendly and try not to get too used to them. One day they will work out and she will be there to stay.I am having problems with my dad any advice?
Be honest with him. Tell him that you don't have a problem with his dating, but you don't want to meet them. Not because you don't want to give them a chance, but because it isn't healthy for you to have a parade of different women coming in and out of your life. Learning to care about someone, then having that person banished from your life because your dad isn't interested in them any more is very emotionally unhealty. He needs to keep his personal life private. Unfortunately, that's about all you can do. If he's being that insensitive to you, when you are trying to talk to him, he's not using good parenting. He wants to do what he wants, without regard to how it may affect you. At 13, you should be able to decide whether you spend time with him. If the girlfriends are tagging along, he really isn't spending time with you, so talk to your mom and ask (politely) if you can decline spending time with him and the girlfriend. Explain your reasons why. He'll probably throw a bf over it, but that's too bad. If he's not looking after what's best for you, you may have to step up to the plate. You sure sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Hang in there, kiddo, it gets better. Look at what he's doing, and how it's affecting you. When you have a family, you can use his mistakes to be a better mom.
Dear you. Most of parents care to protect childrens from adults problems so child dont get to know all about there things.


I undarstand you and how you feel. its hard for you to get to know again new person.


I think that you need to tell your dad that you wish to spend more time with him, to have an undarstending about how it makes you feel ,having a new person in his life now.


Talk to a person who you trust and ask if that person can help you talking to him.


You need to be happy in life and its inportant that your dad have time for you to do somthing nice and to let you know that he cares for you.


All the best!
You will probably have this problem for a while. Your dad is searching for happiness since the divorce. He will probably go with a lot of women before he finds the right one. Try to remember this until he dose settle down because there is not much you can do. Just Keep Loving Your Dad.
so called (adults) wont listen tou they do whatever they pleas. goodluck.. with that especially dads... uhh im so happy i dont tlk to mine.