Step Mother Problems plz id love if you gave me advice

so i have lived with my step mom and my dad for 5 years my step mom is 23 and my dad is 43 turning 44 in october.when they first got together my dad always used to hit me and my brother and pull us by our hir for beibg mean to joanna(wich we werent even she just said that to get us introuble)but then we moved to a new state(south dakota) and things got a little better my dad stop hitting us and by the way then she just had a baby joanna did and she was 1 then and then she was pregnant again but after we moved into our house she got mad at me one day and punched me i was gonna kick her *** but my dad would have gotten mad he was at work at the time.so my dad got home and i told him and he didt believe me so i told someone at my church and we went to the cops and they said if she ever does it againg shes going to jail:) but youu see we moved again into a big house or bigger and things are way different i mean i feel left out alot cus my sisters get everything and my 16 year old brother is in jail cus he ran away and wanted to get away from joanna beacuse it seems our dad doesnt love us anymore...but all of this is not the point im not trying to make joanna seem like a bad person though we dont get along what are some ways i can be happy control my anger and be a better daughter??Step Mother Problems plz id love if you gave me advice
i am really sorry about th way the whole situation is going for your brother and you. she has your dad completely brain washed into thinking she is such a ';great'; person. when we are on lookers we can see people for who they really are. your dad is blind to her. and his ignorance is making him blind to you kids. (sorry that he is). was he a great dad before her? maybe, he feels you kids since you are older will leave him and he is trying to replace that early on. stupidest reason i ever heard. i already agree. she must make your dad feel young and she probably comes off as vulnerable to your dad when it comes to you kids she feels threatened. so her immature age she tells her dad her ignorant lil story about how her feelings are hurt from whatever pathetic stretched out little reason she can give. so, tat could put you both in the situation you are in.


i bet you and your brother will learn from this and never treat your own kids like this if their becomes another parent in the situation. just remember sometimes though that kids are very angry when another ';parent'; comes into the situation as they already disrupt. and kids do not always give a fair shake. but sometimes it is the ';adult';coming in. it is going to be hard to get slose to your new siblings as their may be that bitter feeling towards them and they will not know any different as that will be the way they are raised. I am real sorry and i hope things work out for you both. Good Luck!Step Mother Problems plz id love if you gave me advice
you need to go to your school consul er about his, he/she can guide you in the right direction
just tell here
Although you don't like Joanna i think you try and get to know her. And if that doesn't work try and avoid her as much as possible. The less your together the less problem there should be. As for your father i think you should sit him down and explain to him how you feel, you never know he might surprise you. If all of that doesn't than work than you should really go and get professional help. You can tell your school counselor or if it really gets bad call the cops. GOOD LUCK!!! i hope everything works out!
You need professional help for your family. You are admitting having anger issues at age 16. It is no wonder why. You father beat the crap out of you all the time like it was normal.... he should be arrested and going to jail. That wife of his should also be in jail as well. Screw her., She sounds like she has no morals. You need to put a stop to this before it is too late. (you growing up in a family that beats there own children's means that you will beat your children. You have to tell someone. Don't let them get away with this. They will probably beat there new child and maybe too hard one day and end up killing it. You have to talk to someone.(before they have a murder charge on one of them) Like a guidance councilor or a cop or a friends parents someone anyone. Before it is too late. Look what happened to your brother he had so much anger built up inside that he got arrested and lashed out at someone and is spending his days in jail.. Do you want to end up there to? tell someone. I can't stress it enough. Look at it this way. They both have a disease. They can't help them self's.. They feel like if they beat you that they are better. They are sick. help them get help!!! Protect yourself. Act! Get help before they hit you so hard that they kill you.
You are not the problem! She is! She is an evil young lady who is using your dad because he is established in life! She knows that she has him wrapped around her finger, and will do anything to try and get all of his attention. I do not know if you watch lifetime, but some of the stories are based on true life. Some people really are crazy! They go to any extreme to get the full attention of the man in their life. It is not your fault that Joanna is a bad person. No matter what you do to be a ';good daughter'; you will never be her child. She may hate the fact that your dad still cares for you and your brother (being as though you guys are by another woman)!