Friendz n issues n problems...uhhh . need advice?

well i have this friend and her and me got into a argument. and she got mad that i wanted my baby father in the baby's life. and every time i asked for some advice on that problem she would be like why you need to adviceon that. it isnt like im gone let the baby see him.( like its her child or somrthing). so now we are not friends and her 11 year old little sister keep sending me messages cursing me out and saying im a dirty *** hoe and stuff like that. and she will not leave me alone. i dont want to say something to somebody else child so i dont say anything wrong. im 17 years old and im not baout to get into a fight with a 11 year old. she say she wants to fight me. i think this little girl has lost her mind. me and her sister dont talk at all. we keep our distance or whatever. what do i do about her little sister sending me messgaes? because when i say somehting to wrong i dont want her mom asyin i said this to her child. what do i do?Friendz n issues n problems...uhhh . need advice?
ok seriously, she's 11. just ignore her.Friendz n issues n problems...uhhh . need advice?
Can you block her email? That's what I would do. She's 11 and not worth it.
ok wtf why is this in this sections were just teenagers get on parenting or something stop asking in the wrong sections.
umm why do things have to get so complicated??


obviously, this friendship is not working out for the two of you


i never like to get rid of a friend, but its getting out of hand


say goodbye to her %26amp; leave this all alone


you cant stressed before you have a baby


it'll ruin the hormones in your body


and ignore her little sister


seriously, if i were you, i wouldve callen her sister some bad words by now but thanksfully you havent
she is 11 ignore her.
I agree w/ SM on most of what she said





Just ignore her, she's a kid. She'll probably get tired once she realizes she's not gettin the attention she wants out of it. If the situation gets out of your hands, go ahead and tell her mom. You don't need half of this drama in your life. Just tell her you had some differences w/ your friend and that made you two stop talking to each other. It has nothing to do with the sister and you really don't want that sort of problem. I dont think the mom's gonna get mad at you, if she's a good mom she'll be glad you didn't start fighting with the lil girl.
I'm a little confused by the situation......you have a baby and your friend doesn't think that the baby should know his father?? Look, I was 16 when I got pregnant with my daughter and 17 when I had her. Her father was six months younger than me....too young to be a ';good dad';...anyway, do what YOU feel is right. This is a life that YOU are responsible for molding so why do you care what an outside person thinks?? Does your childs father want to be involved? If not, you can't ';force'; him to be. I tried that....it doesn't work. He'll come around when he's ready. If he doesn't, then it is NOT your fault. Another piece of advice....do not use your child as a weapon or barganing chip to get what you want from him...example would be saying to him that he can't see the baby when you get mad at him....I did that too!





Look, I'm 28 now and my daughter is 11....if you need advice feel free to email me. s.mustakas@yahoo.com





Now, on another note....this chicks sister is 11?? You're 17?? Ignore her! If she's being that relentless...CALL HER MOTHER! Be respectful so you don't come off like the bad guy. If you go and get into a fight with a child, not only will you get arrested, but they could take away your baby! BE CAREFUL!!!





Hope that helps!
Well first of all she has to understand that its your life not hers. Second is that if shes causing you this kind of problems, then shes not a real friend. About her sister, I had a problem similar to yours, except these girls were 12 and 9. They too wanted to fight ahahaha, but see what you need to do is call the cops on her, that way they see that shes looking for a problem and ur trying to stop it. Cause seriously that little brat aint worth Fighting with. Let her and the cops deal with it, that will let her know not to mess with you, and hopefully she'll stop harrasing you. So good luck
you should go to your cellular phone company and tell them to block the number or you can block the number if that is not possible tell your ex-friend to tell her sister to simply stop texting and walk away just dont start anything with her or else her mother will find out and even if you told her mom that child can't do anything about it like ';beat'; you up
Why do you even care what an 11 year old thinks? It's none of her business what you do. Ignore her. Are you sure that it is actually her sister doing this? Your ex-friend may just be using her account to message you. You don't say why your friend doesn't want the father in your baby's life, but depending upon the reason she may have some valid concerns.
Leave your friend, ignore the sister and find some real friends that appraciate you and care for you, cos this relationship ain't going anywhere