if you care.
try and help him out.
convince him he needs help and he can get over the past.My ex boyfriend has serious problems! Need some advice.?
It's really hard to understand a person like that. You never know when there going to blow up. I think that your boyfriend does need help never the less you recognize this issue, does he and does he want to get help? A person will not admit they have a problem if they don't want to help the situation they are going through. Be strong and continue being a friend to him. Try not to worry . Just makes me wonder does this involve drug use ? Good-Luck to you !
Your exBF, with the way you describe what he does, has symptoms suggestive of schizophrenia. Why don't you tell him to seek professional help before it's too late.
Be Safe first. Don't say anything that might trigger him. It doesn't sound like the past is the past to me. Through personal experience, I can tell you Yes he has problems that are bigger than you, and you can't help him. If he has done all of that in the past what makes you think he can't and won't do it again. He has to want to get help for himself. He needs it, but nobody else can tell him that. If I were you, (not to be mean or anything, but think about yourself first,) if you love yourself you know you need to leave him alone, but not so abruptly that he might flip out, but gradually let him go. He is a ticking time bomb right now, and he has buttons that are ready to be pushed, but don't be the example, because you don't want to be a statistic.
See anger management, and depression, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on pages 4, and 2: print/refer him. Advise him to contact the county/local mental health agency, since he needs counselling. Find the phone number for him. Give him some Omega 3 fish oil supplements.
I think it's great that you are still concerned about his well-being. Let him know he should get professional help to work through the problems in the past before he becomes a danger to himself or others. It could take months or years but it definitely feels good to be able to talk to a non-judgmental person and they may even give him meds to get though this really hard time.
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