I need Help With Girl problems!!! Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Advice needed?

okay so a few weeks ago i called up this girl who i've known since september as a friend for a girl's number to ask her out. she didn't know it and we went along talking for the next several hours from 8 o clock to two in the morning!!! we would continue this for several days, conversations never losing their edge. she asked me to ask her out saying '; well why don't you ask me a question silly'; so i did. i honestly like her now a lot and she's liked me for a long time i discovered. SO we decided to go out on this sunday after she gets back from the bahamas. she gets back yesterday and says she cant go out tomorrow just cause she '; just can't.'; i ask her if she misses me and she says she doesn't know now and is confused. last week she said '; of course i miss u';. our long and energetic conversations have become curt, non chalant conversations. i told her tonite i will never ask out that girl ever and i'm not using her and to text me back when she knows what she wants. Whats GOING ON?????I need Help With Girl problems!!! Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Advice needed?
wow maybe she's playing hard to get?


i doubt she would change her mind that fast(like if she met another guy)I need Help With Girl problems!!! Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Advice needed?
i'm thinking you're suffocating the poor girl. It's easy for a girl to fall for a guy, but talking and texting to often can be overwhelming and annoying really. It doesn't mean that she doesn't like you, it means maybe you should let her breathe a bit. She'll come to you when she's ready.
yeah, this girl has some othe guy besides you, and she's picking and choosing, this happen to someone i know before..... she's dropping you, eventually she's gonna do it..... unless the other guy she's seeing drops her, she might come back to you...it's a girl feeling thing...it's hard to explain....
Maybe she wants to talk one or two more times before going on a official date. You two are actually dating right now, talking on the phone like this. I think it is going well, do not question yourself, you seem like a gentleman and know what you want.
It sounds like she doesn't want to be bothered right now. Ask her outright if she will ever go out with you. If she says, ';probably not'; then move on. idk....her actions are confusing. Maybe she just needs some time from coming back from vacation? idk Good luck though.
Make shure you make it very clear to her that youre not using her. Say that if you were using her, you would have asked out the girl you were gonna ask out while she as in the bahamas. Say yore not a cheater.
the girl isn't interested in you bro she is interested in a fantasy , when the real thing comes along she backs off ..





just move on if you dont you will regret it
You should probably just give her time. She will eventually relize that she likes you and come back. and if she doesn't then move on cause she probably isn't worth it.
She dumped you dude. Probably has a bf somewhere.
she is probably got scared when she got back from the bahamas
jaja well dude all girls r the same...dnt even try to undertand them. cuz u'll never gonna make it lol


just try to love them
she's just confused she will be back sooner or latyer
not to make things worse for you but i think she maybe getting over you
dump her she sounds like a ho
you may be gay, ever thought of trying guys?
She could have thought more about how she felt about you, is one. Maybe she realized that all of those long hours on the phone would be ruined if you guys had a relationship that didn't work out. Maybe she does not want to tell you that she changed her mind, that she just wants to be friends.


She also could have met someone else in between the time she came back, someone who changed her thoughts.


There could also be serious family or friend problems that are taking up her thinking, also.


I am a girl, but I am not as confusing, so I may be completely wrong.


But talk to her. Just straight out ask her (gently) why the sudden lack of interest. First ask her if there is anything wrong and that might lead to the answer.


Good luck, be patient.
I know this might sound mean, but maybe you talk to much (no insult). Or she's found someone else. Ask her if she wants to be your girl anymore. If she doesn't, just take it and walk away. She wasn't the one at that point. Buy her something no matter what.