Help me ): boy problems i need advice????????

okay so this happens to me everytime. I end up liking a guy a lot and you know i talk to them a lot and try to get them to like me, then the guy always does end up liking me in the end but then when he starts to like me i dont like him anymore ): why is this happening? i dnt want it to be this way i wanna have a boyfreind and stuff ughhh help!





and im really scared to kiss anyone and im very prude, how can i stop being this way.. im 16 years old!Help me ): boy problems i need advice????????
Well, I see three possibilities.


A is that they take too long to like you, and you end up losing interest.


B is that you get to know them better and end up wanting to keep it just friends.


C is that you like ';projects.'; Guys that you have to put effort into to get something back. And when you solve ';the puzzle,'; there's no more fun in it.





I knew a friend who was C, (and I'm sorry to talk about guys like this, it's just the easiest way to relay what I'm trying to say) and it sounds like you have at least a little of that.





My advice is to find someone you like and just come out with it. Ask him to go to a movie with friends so that way you can learn about him before you have a chance to burn out.





About the kissing thing, don't worry. I've only kissed five or six guys and i'm seventeen. It's not always a bad thing. And when you do find someone you like a lot, you'll be glad you didn't kiss everything that moves. Help me ): boy problems i need advice????????
You are a ';conqueror';. Once you have a guy's attention and he's into liking you, it's time to move on to conquer someone new. You get bored easily with ';old'; things and need a new challenge. You'll never keep a guy (which you don't really need to do at your age anyway). You need to mature into the stage of actually wanting a relationship and you have lots of time for that. Being prudish about kissing and things is really an advantage at your stage in life, because you don't really want to appear to be an ';easy piece'; for guys. Don't worry. Time will tell in the next few years and you'll find a guy but for now just have fun on dates.
I have the same problem. Here is what i think it is, i think we are just liking the wrong type of ppl. You have to find sombody that you dont just like a little you have to find sombody that you like alot and if u like that person alot then ur feelings will stick. Being prude, teach urself to not be so prude being a little is no problem and the kissing thing well you just have to try it on ur own u will like it. unless the dude is totaly hidious and smells like onions. lol
You always want what you can't have. It's just human nature.





Alot of 16 year old girls feel the same way. It is more just an attention seeking thing, or a way for you to feel popular.





For instance, I read in a magazine the other day, a list of ways to win back an ex-girlfriend. By far the most effective was ignoring her and making her jealous. Sad but true.





From now on you just need to make sure you really do like a guy before you start messing around with him. What you're doing is called leading them on. And stick with them for a little after they start liking you. You don't see someone's true colors until you have been in a relationship for a little while.





Good-luck.
find someone that you really like. how many times has this happened? all i can say is to look for someone that you really like alot like really really like then when yall go out then you might like him longer then you can see how it feals to like someone that long and then you might stay with him
It sounds like you have a fear of intimacy. Try hugging someone when you first greet them everyday then it won't seem so awkward. Then you can try kissing them goodbye each day and after awhile that won't seem so awkward.
It seems to me that you like what you cant have, and when you finally can him him you dont want him anymore. When you find the right guy you will know it.
Gurl you need stop messing with immature boys thats all that is.
dont go out with him untill u get him to like u and u wont have that problum..dud,im only 12 and ive kissed my boyfriend 4 times already